
monday, may 5th at about 11:30 p.m. we were awaken by pounding on our front door. it was one of my older brothers.......i felt like i was in a nightmare as he told me that dad had a heart attack and had died. i felt numb like i couldn't believe it. then i immediately thought of my other brother and sister who were much closer to him than i was. you see, things weren't always great growing up and my mom and dad divorced when i was young. i never had a strong father and daughter connection with my father, but my dad was my dad and i loved him very much. he loved to travel and also loved the mountains. he would come back and forth from virginia and we would get together every once in awhile. we could see lately how things were changing in dad, as he would say he just wanted to get closer to God and it just seemed like he was making an attempt to change things for the better, mending broken relationships and telling us he loved us and was proud of us. we have a great peace knowing that God prepared my dad for his last days on earth, even though none of us knew it at the time. we can now look back and see why there were things that happened and what God was doing. God is so merciful and i love and thank Him for that. we honored dad with live music at his funeral, my dad played the dobro and was very good at it. it was his life and he loved the gospel bluegrass music, in fact he made a few albums with a group back in the day. this type of music was what the group played at his funeral and i have to say when i heard that dubro player begin to play, i lost it, i think we all did. i also had two pictures of my dad blown up on both sides of his casket of when he was younger holding his dobro, one was with the mountains behind him. i really have to thank my wonderful lab - H&H - for getting those back to me as fast as they did, it meant the world to me. i really have to say through all of this that i could see the bond, love, strength, and support me and my three brothers and sister really share together. thank you for all your love and prayers.
elisa marie